pacman inkee

Writer's Block: Teenage dream

If you arrived at your front door and saw your first love standing there, what would you do or say?


"did you lock yourself out again?"

for those who don't know, my first love was evan's dad, and we still live together (along with the girls' dad who i am not emotionally relationshipped to anymore either) to raise all of the children. yuriy also lives here, and we ARE still in a relationship together, because i like to make things extra confusing. p funny tho!
Yay for people just figuring out how to have a relationship(s) that work for them and are mutually supportive of everyone involved.
i kno right? my mom spent 10yr telling me i was doing it wrong before shutting up.
/rant mode on

Whats annoying to me is as soon as you explain any deviance from the accepted norms of relationships, everyone tries to label it or you or the type of lifestyle. I don't mind explaining whatever complexity our relationship might be if people ask, but I really get peeved when people just try to define it with an easy label.

Fuck labels, fuck any standards, people should just focus on whatever works for them.

/rant mode off
yes exactly. i dont label myself as poly because i am not, i am very monogamous, i just have relationships that have responsibilities that require me to maintain parts of those relationships until the responsibilities are finished. and i hate being labeled poly, not because i have anything against poly people, but because applying that label to me is a lie against the relationship style i personally find fulfilling. i like the term "multiunit inhouse family" hehe!